My Greatest Experience in the Field of Love
A STORY I MIGHT NOT EASILY FORGET AND A LESSON TO THE WISE
LIFE GREATEST LESSONS ARE GAINED
FROM OUR LOSSES – JOHN C. MAXWELL
One of the most important thing in
any circumstances you found yourself is not how painful it is, but it is what
you learn at the process so you don’t repeat the same mistake again.–E. A. AMOS
For instance, you have a brother who
is very wealthy. When you talk of money, it’ nothing is his side. But when
there’s no love you as a brother or sister won't smell the cent of the money,
talk of seeing the body of the money. With true love you can built and with
that same love it can stand forever.
Love makes everything easy. It can
make you see possibilities and find help in the face of your challenges when
you found someone who know what love really means to human race.
With love Christ died and shed His
blood for me and you. Who on earth can do that? The answer is capital NO.
If you want to have a long lasting,
true and enjoyable relationship, built it with a pure heart and don’t focus on
money. Reason are; no relationship built with money ever last. As soon as the
money finishes, that’s the end of the relationship. If you doubt me then try it
and see.
Love can give you hope to live. Love
is everything on earth. As long as there’s love in a family anything can be
accomplished because everybody has one mind and there’s cooperation among each
other.
When there’s love in relationship,
definitely there would be a true understanding between each other. And in such
relationship there’s always hope in their future.
In a marriage, love make and gives a
true understanding between husband and wife. Lack of love in marriage can break
up in divorce. Simply because there don’t know the value of love and there
don’t know the true meaning of love.
When somebody finds courage to tell
you “I love you”, do not take it for granted. He/she might be the right person who
would offer you what you have been looking for in a long time.
I can’t explain all what love
means just like I said previously that nobody can give the last definition of
love. Every individual has his/her own way of defining love to his/her own
understanding. You have yours and I have mine and others have theirs.
The title of this book “THE
SYMBOL” is out of my experience. It is good to love but it hurt when you
realize that you are not loved in return. It hurt the most when the person whom
you love and have feelings for, do not even want to know how you feel and don’t
care about it.
THE STORY IS BITTER
I was in love with someone whom my
heart truly beat for. A person I always ready to do anything positively to make
her smile and happy. With the pureness of my heart I was expected to be loved
in return the same way I did. But to the greatest surprise irrespective of my
risk (as one of the most important thing you need to take in order to achieve
what you want) the person took every of my courage, feelings, hope, love
(heart), and every other thing I take to express my love for her for granted.
But am happy the person only takes
my hope for granted and didn’t take it away from me. When you
lose hope you lose everything. Read down to see my experience so that somebody
won’t play games with your heart again.
I was once given my heart to
someone, a heart red as this symbol, as smooth as nothing to be compare, a
heart without any dirt particles, a heart that I cannot elucidate how pure it
was. I give the person my heart with every single courage I have, but I can
still remember that “the person took it for granted”, despite
all my courage and emotions.
The person breaks my heart and left
me with so much pains without caring.
But I so much thank God the person
didn’t take away my hope! One thing the person didn’t know is that
“No one will ever give her what I have been had for her”! Even
though there will, it would never be the same.
It may sound funny, but the truth is
that, “True words are sometimes difficult to identify” –E. A.
Amos
Am not angry at that person, neither
did I have anything in mind irrespective of the risk I have been taken just to
make sure that this same person remains happy, yes am not angry at her, because
I realize that it’s a lesson life teaches me so that I can know how I handle my
heart whenever I come across who I can say “I LOVE YOU”!.
MY HAPPINESS
Am happy because my hope wasn’t
taken away from me, and am happy because I have hope. And my hope
still lives!
Hope is a beautiful thing.–John C.
Maxwell.
He wrote: What does hope do for
mankind?
- Hope shines brightest when the hour is darkest.
- Hope motivates when discouragement comes.
- Hope energizes when the body is tired.
- Hope sweetens when the bitterness bites.
- Hope singes when all melodies are gone.
- Hope believes when the evidence is limited.
- Hope climes over obstacles when no one is helping.
- Hope endures hardship when no one is caring.
- Hope smiles confidently when no one is laughing.
- Hope reaches for answers when no one is asking.
- Hope presses towards victory when no one is encouraging.
- Hope dares to give when no one is sharing.
- Hope brings the victory when no one is winning.
In short, hope gives. It gives to us
even when we have little or nothing left. It is one of the most precious thing
we have in life.
Hope is inspiring. It gives us the
motivation for living and learning because hope says yes to life. Says John
C. Maxwell.
WHAT DID I LEARN?
The person whom you love will not be
the one who will love you and the one you love most will not love you in
return. So whenever you are in love with someone, don’t always expect to be
loved in return.–E.
A. Amos
THE TRUTH IS THAT:
- The person whom you always have interest for, will have none for you.
- The one you care so much for, will not care for you nor have any feelings for you at all.
- The one you are ready to give your life to, will not put you on the list.
- The person you put your hope on, and think to be the one who will give you all you want will sometimes turn you down.
- The one you depend on; will not count you at all.
- The one whom your heart chooses will not be the one who will Adour you and the person will not care about any pains you must have gone through.
- The person you truly love will not love you as you want or satisfy your heart as you will always expected.
- The person you will like to spend any of your spare time with, will not value you even for anything no-matter how you care.
- The person whom you like all her qualities will not like your own even one or two.
- And many more!
It is the true nature of life.
People will sometimes know not about the value that comes with a particular
moment, and when that moment passes, it looks like a dream to them. -E. A. Amos
Do not misunderstand me and do not
be discouraged!
If you love someone and you know
that you/your heart cannot let go if the person turn you down, “Don’t give-up”.–E. A. Amos
Reasons are: Some might want to
tempt you whether you truly love them and some might come into your life to
make it miserably for you.
That’s why a wise man says:-
Don’t laugh too much!
Don’t trust too much!
Don’t love too much!
Because that too much can hurt you
so much. Is funny right?
It’s now clear to me that, sometimes
God want us to meet first with the wrong people so that we can have experience
about how life works. It happens so we can learn a lesson and improve
ourselves.
We meet with the wrong people so
that we can get the fact about life. We meet with the wrong people so that when
we finally meet with the right ones, we know how to handle them with care.
There are some sensible questions
one need to ask him/herself before reacting. WHY? Because it is not only the
pains you left someone with that really matters, what matters is: what did you
gain and what did you learn from it. Is it just to be happy? If your answer is
yes, then you are quoting yourself wrongly and you are not yet started.
My pains might be the reason for
somebody’s happiness but my happiness will never be the reason for somebody’s
pain. –E. A.
Amos
You earn nothing in making or living
somebody in pain, which the Bible concluded that “No one’s condition ever
remains permanent”. Just like no one will ever knows tomorrow. Did you ever ask
yourself what if that man/boy or woman/girl was the right person for you?
Playing with someone’s heart is
something majority of people won't afford not to be over angry if another
person tries to make fund with theirs. But there will never see the pains in
another person’s heart when it comes to their own side.
The truth is that, no one will ever
know what “TOMORROW” holds at hand!
IMPORTANT THING ABOUT
LIFE
It’s not what you earn that matters
the most, it’s who you become at the process.
One of the most important thing in
any circumstances you found yourself is not how painful it is, but it is what
you learn at the process so you don’t repeat the same mistake again.–E. A. AMOS
I will never allow anyone to play
games with my heart ever again!
Thank God for the hope I have for
the future.
One saying says: “Sometimes you will not know the
true value of a moment until it becomes a memory”.
It now that I understand the meaning
that “Sometimes you might lose what was your own because of your negative
mindset and regret will be your best reward or gain when you come to realize
it.(How I know)
The Bible says “Believe and it shall
come to pass in your life”.
I believe that one day-someday:-
- Many will look for me.
- Some will find me.
- Some will want to identify with me.
- Some will look for my contact.
- Some will ask for it.
- Some will request for it.
- Some will only seek for my face.
- Some will want to chat with me in
any available social network.
- Some will want to know where I
reside.
- Some will struggle to get my
address.
- Some will want to love me, while
- Some will ask for only like.
- Some will want to give me their
heart, and
- Many will want to recognize with me
– Amos
As the Bible says “If
you love yourself then love your neighbour as you love thyself”. So for that reason, I will love
them according to the Bible, but I will never allow anyone to joke again with
my heart.
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IT ALL ABOUT ME SO DEAL WITH IT!
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